When it comes to exploring penetrative sex positions, the internet is filled with articles aimed at specific goals (like stimulating the prostate, resolving post-operative difficulties) or pursuing the ultimate experience. But sometimes, all you crave is that pure, immediate, satisfying “deep” feeling—whether that’s being intimate with a partner or exploring alone with the help of a penetrative toy.
This article will focus on those classic positions that provide the ultimate deep penetration experience. We’ve covered doggy style, missionary variations, and more to help you achieve the deep bonding you crave.
Important note: These positions may be more intense, so be sure to warm up fully, use enough lubricant, communicate with your partner about your feelings throughout the process, proceed step by step, and safety first!
Lying on your stomach: Child’s Pose (Yoga-inspired poses)
– Principle: The body is curled up into a ball and the pelvis is tilted backwards to make the entrance position relatively “shallow”, making the insertion (whether a penis or a wearable dildo) feel deeper and fuller.
– Method: Start in a kneeling position, with your knees together and your buttocks toward your heels. Lean forward, with your chest close to your thighs and your forehead touching the floor (or bed). The arms can be stretched forward naturally or wrapped around the back of the calf to deepen the curl. Your partner kneels (or stands) behind you, spreads your legs, and holds your hips to assist with penetration.
– Key Points: Focus on relaxing your body and feeling deeply filled.
Flatiron Pose
– Principle: When lying on your stomach, use padding under your hips to form a natural angle, making it easier to reach the entrance deeply. Ideal for passive enjoyment.
– Method: Lie on your stomach with legs together. Place a firm pillow or sexual positioning wedge under your hips (under your pubic area). Your partner kneels astride your thighs and leans forward for penetration.
– Adjustments: Partner can adjust depth and intensity by moving knee position, changing forward angle or thrust intensity. Want to be more proactive? This allows you to keep your partner more upright while you reach out and grab their hands, using leverage to assist with deeper penetration.
– Key Points: The ultimate in passive enjoyment, perfect for moments of relaxation.
Resting Wheelbarrow (Safe variant)
– Principle: Traditional unicycling (where you are completely suspended) is physically demanding and prone to injury. This variation utilizes supports to achieve a sense of depth and suspension while reducing risk.
– Method: Stand beside the bed with your feet apart, lean forward and place your chest/upper abdomen flat on the bed (if the bed is short, use pillows under your chest to keep your spine straight). Your partner stands between your legs and enters from behind. Your partner holds your thighs tightly, and you relax your body and let the bed support you. Try lifting your legs or even wrapping them around your partner’s waist (optional). Your partner continues to support your legs during penetration.
– Key Points: Safer than traditional unicycles, provides depth and a unique feeling of weightlessness.
Lying on your back with open legs: Happy Baby Pose (Yoga-inspired poses)
– How it works: When lying on your back, you open your hips and raise your pelvis significantly, creating an excellent vertical path for your partner to penetrate.
– Method: Lie on your back with your tailbone on the ground. Bend your knees and grasp the outside of each foot (or ankle/calf) with each hand. Pull your knees toward your armpits, with the soles of your feet facing the ceiling, and try to open your knees toward the floor on either side of your body. Your partner kneels between your legs, facing you for penetration.
– Maintenance: Fix your feet with your hands, or use straps to help maintain the posture to focus on feeling the depth.
– Key Points: Deep integration and a high sense of openness.
Legs on Shoulders
– Principle: Place the legs on your partner’s shoulders and press them toward the chest, causing the pelvis to tilt extremely backwards, significantly shortening the length of the vaginal/anal canal, allowing for ultra-deep penetration.
– Note: Requires a certain amount of flexibility, use with caution if you have lower back pain.
– Method: Lie on your back. Your partner kneels in front of you. Lift your legs and place your legs or the back of your calves over your partner’s shoulders. Your partner leans forward and gently presses your legs toward your chest while lifting your hips.
– Low-impact variation: If straightening your legs is uncomfortable, place the soles of your feet on your partner’s chest, keeping your knees bent. Still allows for deeper insertion with less hamstring stress.
– Key Points: To pursue classic positions with ultimate depth, be gentle and listen to your body’s signals.
Riding position variations: Extended Cowgirl
– Principle: Based on the traditional female top position, straightening the legs and changing the angle can usually increase the insertion depth and stimulate the G-spot/prostate.
– Method: The partner lies on his back. You face your partner and sit astride him. Instead of sitting on your knees, place your feet on the bed on either side of your partner’s body. Slowly straighten your legs and move your feet to either side of your partner’s head (or as far away as possible). Once you find a stable position, start moving up and down.
– Key Points: Enhanced depth and control, more focused stimulation.
Heaven’s Gate (Reverse Ride Variant)
– Principle: A stretching variation of reverse riding (facing your partner’s feet), with your body leaning back to match your partner’s upward thrust to achieve a unique depth.
– Method: The partner lies on his back. You sit astride your partner, facing their feet (reverse riding). Instead of sitting on your knees, straighten your legs in front of you (towards your partner’s head), bend your knees slightly, and place your feet on the bed. Slowly lean back and lean against your partner (your partner can use their hands to support you). Both hands can be placed on the bed behind you to assist with balance.
– Action: You can try sliding forward and backward; your partner can hold your hips and push upward.
– Enhance pleasure: Try bringing your thighs together to increase friction.
– Key points: The combination of depth and reverse perspective, strong partner interaction.
Seat variant: Love Seat (Love Seat – Sofa/Chair Utilization)
– Principle: Utilize the height difference of furniture and the sitting posture to easily control the angle and strength to achieve deep insertion.
– Method: Partner sits on the edge of the sofa/chair (buttocks close to the front edge). You face your partner, straddling their lap, and kneeling on the seat on either side of your partner. After insertion, you can leverage the movement by hugging your partner, grabbing the back of the sofa, or your partner’s shoulders.
– Increasing depth techniques: Move your partner closer to the edge of the seat; or try changing from a kneeling position to a squatting position (feet on the ground) to use gravity to sit down for deeper penetration.
– Key Points: Comfortable, intimate and easy to control depth and rhythm.
Summary and safety reminder:
These eight positions provide you with a variety of options for exploring deep penetration experiences.
Please remember:
– Warm up well: Awaken your body with caressing or other activities before you start.
– Lubrication is key: Deeper insertions usually require more lubrication to reduce frictional discomfort. Whatever lubricant you use, make sure there’s enough.
– Step by step: Don’t go for maximum depth at the beginning, try slowly and get deeper gradually.
– Focus on communication: Maintain verbal or non-verbal communication (moans, body reactions) with your partner throughout the process. Stop immediately if you feel any discomfort or pain.
– Listen to your body: Respect your body’s feelings and limits. Certain positions require flexibility, so don’t force them.
– Safe environment: Make sure there is enough space and the furniture is stable (especially when using sofas/chairs).
Deep penetration can bring intense satisfaction, but comfort, safety and mutual pleasure are at the core. Have fun exploring different positions and find what works best for you!