As a classic tool in the field of sexual health, the dildo is both practical and exploratory. With the increasing variety of products on the market, how to choose a dildo that suits them has become a difficult problem for many users. We will provide you with a scientific and practical purchasing guide from multiple dimensions.
Clarify needs and preferences
Before buying, ask yourself a few questions:
– Purpose: Is it for solo pleasure, partner interaction, or special gameplay (such as role-playing)?
– Size: Beginners are advised to start with a moderate size (length 4-6 inches, diameter 1-1.5 inches) and gradually explore tolerance.
– Material preference: soft and realistic or firm and supportive?
– Functional requirements: Do you need vibration, heating or remote control?
Core considerations: materials and safety
Materials are directly related to user experience and health. Be sure to choose products that meet safety standards:
– Medical grade silicone: non-toxic, odorless, high temperature resistant (can be boiled and sterilized), soft in texture, suitable for sensitive people, and is a high-quality material recognized by the industry.
– TPE/TPR: It feels closer to the skin, but has more pores and needs to be cleaned frequently and replaced regularly.
– ABS plastic/glass: The surface is smooth and easy to clean, but it lacks elasticity and is suitable for users who prefer a hard texture.
– Lightning protection materials: Avoid products containing “phthalates”, plasticizers that may cause allergies or long-term health risks.
Function classification: choose as needed
Basic model (non-vibration)
Suitable for those who pursue a natural experience or have a limited budget, focusing on the shape design (such as whether the bending angle stimulates the G-spot/P-spot).
Vibration model
Built-in motor provides extra stimulation, please note when choosing:
– Multiple levels of intensity and modes: provide more gameplay possibilities.
– Silent design: ensure privacy (below 50 decibels is best).
– Charging method: USB charging is better than battery type, more environmentally friendly and durable.
Advanced functions
– Remote control: suitable for long-distance partners or to add fun.
– Heating function: simulates body temperature to enhance realism.
– Adaptable accessories: such as a suction cup base to free up your hands, or a compatible safety belt to increase stability.
Usage scenarios and techniques
Use alone
– Use lubricant (water-based is best) to reduce friction. For the first time, you can choose the gentle vibration function to enhance the experience.
Partner interaction
– When using wearable dildos, you need to pay attention to the rhythm and depth of communication. It is recommended to use a “riding style” and other positions that are easy for the recipient to control.
Anal use
– Always choose a dildo with a non-slip base to avoid the risk of it slipping into your body. A diameter of no more than 1 inch is recommended for first attempts.
Safety and Maintenance: Extended Service Life
Cleaning
– Wash with warm water and mild soap before and after each use, silicone/glass material is high temperature sterilizable.
Save
– Store in a dry and dark place, avoid contact with other toys (especially porous materials).
Inspection and replacement
– Check the surface regularly for cracks or deformations and stop using it immediately if any damage is found.
Avoid common pitfalls
“Large size means high pleasure”: A dildo that is too large may cause discomfort or even injury.
Ignoring lubricant compatibility: Oil-based lubricants will corrode silicone materials. Water-based or silicone-specific products are recommended.
Shared dildos: Even if condoms are used, they still need to be thoroughly cleaned and disinfected to avoid the risk of cross-infection.